Again, neither is in the wrong. In the real world, the very first lesson the typical woman learns about what to expect from sex is that losing her virginity is going to hurt.
To subordinate their desires to those of others.
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Do you think maybe she Crap trying to send a sex at how during you were getting it on with her? The world is disturbingly comfortable with the fact that women sometimes leave a sexual encounter in tears.